My form of discipline
As a mother it is one of my concern how I will discipline my baby. It is also my concern to have a disciplinary measure in which no one can intrude. As we all know in our culture the Lola and Lolo's were the one's who make kunsinti to our child.
Now, I can say that my child at the age of 1 year and ten months, she barely knows when I'm getting at the end of my temper. And she noticed that she always runs for the help of my mom. Though there are times also that she sits and listen to me when I talk to her. Though maybe it is her nature to be makulit why there are times I can't help but say, "Naomi, ano na naman ang ginawa mo?" This is because she has a tendency to make gigil to her playmates which end up to crying.
One thing that I am starting to teach my child is the "reward and penalty". In this discipline I don't tolerate the wrong things she does. Since my in-laws and my mom we're against to hitting the child we ends up In facing the wall as a punishment or I ask her to go to our room alone which she really hates. So whenever she made a mistake she knows how to say sorry and make bawi. As much as possible I don't want to spoil her so the reward is very often to come even she's been a good girl for a week.
As young as her age she now knows when is the time to play, eat and sleep. I also teach her to clean up the mess after playing. And maybe because this she's even the one who tells my mom to close the faucet when she saw it open, or sweep the floor when she can't pick up the small dirt on the floor.
So far those were the only form of discipline I teach my child since she's still young. Simple things it may sound but I'm sure that it will have a good effect while she's growing.
Now, I can say that my child at the age of 1 year and ten months, she barely knows when I'm getting at the end of my temper. And she noticed that she always runs for the help of my mom. Though there are times also that she sits and listen to me when I talk to her. Though maybe it is her nature to be makulit why there are times I can't help but say, "Naomi, ano na naman ang ginawa mo?" This is because she has a tendency to make gigil to her playmates which end up to crying.
One thing that I am starting to teach my child is the "reward and penalty". In this discipline I don't tolerate the wrong things she does. Since my in-laws and my mom we're against to hitting the child we ends up In facing the wall as a punishment or I ask her to go to our room alone which she really hates. So whenever she made a mistake she knows how to say sorry and make bawi. As much as possible I don't want to spoil her so the reward is very often to come even she's been a good girl for a week.
As young as her age she now knows when is the time to play, eat and sleep. I also teach her to clean up the mess after playing. And maybe because this she's even the one who tells my mom to close the faucet when she saw it open, or sweep the floor when she can't pick up the small dirt on the floor.
So far those were the only form of discipline I teach my child since she's still young. Simple things it may sound but I'm sure that it will have a good effect while she's growing.
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